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idk how to put it into words to describe my college experience...

Thank you for this, this is exactly everything I am going through

I actually did very well in college for a long time, but by the very end of it, both school and personal life factors had left me ground down to a shell of my former self, dependent on alcohol to reduce my crippling anxiety and depression, fearful about my grades and their impact on my future yet so unmotivated it was hard to actually attend class and turn in assignments, and just frustrated with and resentful of the whole experience overall. It was a living hell, to be honest, all with the hope that the light at the end of the tunnel was a career that paid well and kept me from being homeless. But most bachelor degrees are useless, so you have to go on to a master's. If my teenage self could see my college graduate self ... wow, those are two people who wouldn't easily recognize each other.

I go to college and scared to death all the time

It’s funny to me that you mentioned you hated film school because as someone that is currently attending art school, I regret not attending a college with a film program. Anyways, I’m a senior and I am still contemplating dropping out. I had so many expectations going in. I thought I would make friends and I thought it would be best 3 years yet I’ve been miserable all 3 years to the point where I almost feel suicidal if I don’t drop 😂

No wonder you got anxiety and depression, 16 units in a semester is crazy! I’ve never taken that many in my life because I also suffer from anxiety and depression. That’s great that your taking the time to explore different things in life to see what you want to explore. If you ever do decide to go back to college, you should go to community college because. It’s much cheaper than university. Each class is cheaper and u don’t have to pay tuition. You can take however many classes you’d like each semester. You could work on ur GE’s before you figure out what you really want to major in. You could even consider starting a business and if it does super well, u could potentially get rich from it and then u won’t even need to go to college at that point. I’ve been going to college for 7 years. I would admit that the anxiety and depression has really delayed my graduation because I’ve been going less than full time every semester and I changed my major. I just spent the first 5 years going to community college and taking a manageable course load which wouldn’t trigger my A&D and I got A’s in most of them. I’ve gotten 3 W’s. I transferred to CSUN in spring 2023 as an electrical engineer and I’m doing well. I only took 10 units in the spring and I got straight A’s.

Although this is my first semester in college, my mental health has never been worse in my life. I'm anxious all the time and the thought that I have to do this for 3,5 more years is unbearable. I'd be dropping out right now if it weren't for my parents. I feel like college destroying me and my potential.

My parents keep pushing me to go collage even i didn't want I prefer Trade school but they don't support it😂😭

Thank you for being transparent. It really helped me feel better 😘

Do you still have your piercings ?

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Im coming home early from being abroad and this helped me so much, everything you described is something im going through and I felt so isolated and alone and even like im failing and hearing you talk about your situation made me feel so much better.

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Watching this after I just got my nose piercings done 😍😍😍😍great video 📹😀.

And you need the bed that high why? Can any of you be original?

Same here and I regret it to this day, lost a full ride due to my crippling anxiety and often forget I had that opportunity, probably because I repress those bad memories of the college experience

Thanks for creating this Jocelyn. Might be off topic, but I feel that a lot of poor mental health is caused by current social media. Social media was created to connect people. Yes, it did made our friends’ lives more accessible to us. We could stay updated. But it also brought the flaws. Let’s take Instagram/FB for an example. 1. Before Instagram/FB, we only compare our lives to the people we meet often. And in general, people normally don’t befriend those too far off their family income. If your family is making $200k/yr, chances of you mixing with kids whose families are doing $20m/yr is low. Not zero, but low. The schools you go to, the things you do are diff. With social media esp IG, we get to see everyone’s lives 24/7. Even those who aren’t our friends. The ones much richer than us, the ones who have more time and resources than us. We don’t know if that lifestyle is real or fake, cos some people do crazy stuff to brag. Thus, the materials comparing game never ends and it screws our mind up. 2. We think sharing photos/videos on IG stories is updating our friends. But truth is, no story is really shared. It’s just a lazy form of low-key brag or posting things we like. True sharing of stories happen via voice, it can be face to face or online, doesn’t matter. But stories are shared through voice, where there’s a constant back and forth of interaction. Voice shares emotions like no other channel. it bonds. Instagram has degenerated to become a bragging place with lots of ads. It doesn’t allow us to share stories well yet it makes us all anxious. Of course, there are people who say they use IG stories to stay updated about their friends’ lives. Fair point. You’ll stay updated about what they are doing daily. But staying updated and hearing them share the stories via voice are two different things. One is passive and doesn’t bond both of you, the latter is active and helps bond both of you even more. I think most people are suffering to an extent while using Instagram. But they aren’t aware of it. They continue to use it. For those who are aware enough to know that they can’t share authentic stories and be listened to on Instagram, they leave it. Know what you’re sacrificing when you use Instagram. And ask yourself “ Is it worth it?” If the answer isn’t ‘HELL YES”, you should consider getting yourself away from it at least 2 weeks in a month. Mental health is very important in this world. It just feels like as we connect more on current social media, we become more disconnected. Without social media, it’s just a lot less paranoia, less anxiety. Talking to friends, sharing stories in real life or over a call just feels real. It keeps the heart full. For me, anything that disturbs my inner peace is too expensive. Always. Take care of your mental health.

my freshmen year as well, i decided to submit my withdrawal halfway through the year. my college wasn’t helpful at all as well with my mental space at the time. i even remember the exact words that my dorm coordinator said to me, who is an actual staff hired by the university, “I tell all of my students to get to college, earn your degree, and get out. Happiness shouldn’t be your top priority.” I still dropped out, focused on myself and my mental health, I’m now happier than ever

thank you for sharing. i realised a few things about my own experiences.

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I'm sorry but your voice sounds really whiny and nasal. I realized like female North American teens sound super nasal. It just hurts my ears to listen to you

I have about a year left. I almost dropped out a few months ago. I have had depression for years so I can’t handle more than a few classes at a time :/ it takes so long to graduate…so soul sucking

This is how I am feeling now and I just had to drop my courses because my mindset is not really there anymore. I've been struggling, so seeing this gives me some clarity that I am not alone.

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Even though this was posted more than 3 years ago, I'm sure this still helps people understand that they are not alone. I started university last fall and have been really struggling to make new friends. It has put me into some kind of constant darkness and worry, and generally questioning self-worth and social skills... HOWEVER, I hope you are doing better now <3

I was a freshman in college I recently withdrew in September bc I couldn't handle the pressure I felt like I wasn't gaining anything and I also felt worthless while being there I'm home now and I feel so depressed bc I'm not doing anything here I'm planning on going back in the fall of 2022 and start fresh all over again can someone give me advice is this a good idea to go back ?

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"I'm finally back home" Consider yourself lucky. The reason I'm in college is because there is no plan b. As depressing and stressfull as college is, nobody is going to save me now, and nobody is going to save my in the future when I don't have a career and I'm 60 working as a cashier(no shade to those who are in that position). My advice is to stay in school and tough it out. The world doesn't care if you couldn't handle college.

It wasn't my decision to go to college, Im failing because I'm not exploring my interests, intended to go to military school but my parents didn't let me, I'm lost and don't know when I'll find myself

Just watching this now in 2021 lmao. Im currently a freshman in Winona State University. I have been struggling a lot since i've got here. It has only been 3 months and i'm already out of it. my mental health has not been doing good. I just feel lost. I have already withdraw from my college reading and writing class because I had other classes that I was worrying about and I was just falling behind. I have been thinking to transfer but I just don't know where or what i want to do. The only thing that is holding me back is my best friend who came to college with me and is my roommate and my friend group who have helped me so much and make me feel worth, but other than that I just don't feel right here. I don't want to be a college dropout because i don't want to disappoint my parents and even myself. I just really hope someone can help me or that I can find a path I can following and be better. I just feel like a disappointment :(

I'm at the verge of dropping out college because I feel depressed to the point I can't think clearly anymore and can't focus on my accounting major.What am I going to do?🥺

I liked your piercer she seems really cool

I just joined college for post grad and it's been 2-3 months-ish. I thought this is what I wanted but I don't know anymore. Everyday I wake up dreading classes and I do not look forward to anything. I do not enjoy learning anymore. I don't know if I'm even learning anything. I'm not happy and I'm way behind in class and I just wanna quit but I am afraid.

I am only 1 week in and I already hate it. I suffer from panic disorder and in high school I coped with it but now I can't. I don't know anyone plus all my class is just girls except me. I just wanna drop out but I also don't want to disappoint my family.

hey watching this in fall 2021 and i really want to drop out. your video made me feel not alone! i just transferred from texas a&m to north texas and i hate school again. just like last semester. your video made me feel confident that i can drop out and things can be ok.

Thankyou for this. I've moved from my hometown to this big city and I'm in a horrible state. I'm stuck with the major my life goals doesn't align with. I don't wanna go to classes and don't wanna talk to anyone. Every morning i woke up with this anxious feeling that makes me to quit everything. It's hard and I just keep on telling my self this too shall pass but there are still 3 years to get through. P.S I'm writing this maybe after years when someone like it I'll get reminded of this situation and it might make me greatful for where I will be at that point

Hello , how are you feeling now

Very nice video

School years had been hell for me, it ruined me mentally and physically, i don't want to repeat the same thing with college. i was being forced to join to college this year than next year, failed a test and then try another one and succeed, These are already bad signs. If things were not to go in my favor, i wish i have the strength and will to quit by then, please future me, do not screw this up.

Thank you I went back to college and it was the right decision but I think h studied the wrong thing. I exited a masters and will be getting a post grad diploma. I've been depressed about it ever since. I struggled to make the decision for 2 weeks due to poor mental health and depression. I also haven't studied in years and didn't fully know how everything worked and so I made tonnes if mistakes and got more Cs then bs. I wouldve liked to have had exhibited with my classmates in an exhibition and I can't do that now cause I have exited. My project became an academic report about the field using drawing to aid learning, one I found quite difficult to critically analyse. I was learning althougout covid online and that was a challenge for me to and I misunderstood information. What I'd like is to be an established artist, someone who teaches people how to draw their comics but also I'd like to be a professional illustrator. I realise that isn't exactly a stable career but it what I enjoy. If anyone could give me any suggestions or recommendations of how to continue I would very much appreciate it.

im currently in my first week of college and im very overwhelmed and having a panic attack almost everyday. idk if this goes away after being used to college but im scared i'd have to deal with it for another 3 years 😬

i got my belly first as an early Christmas present(early December 2020), i didn't feel anything it was so quick and healed perfectly, i had no issues. About 2 days ago, i got my nose pierced, it was definitely a shock and a big big difference from the belly, it was very uncomfortable and tender at first until later that day it started to calm down and feel less uncomfortable, i cleaned it and went to bed i woke up the next day and was perfectly fine no pain and it wasn't tender, its still a tinyyy bit red as it will be however its doing good so far! ☺️☺️☺️ [TIP] - when you get a piercing, especially during covid always make sure you have cleaned the area that ur getting the piercing done, make sure hands are clean and be sure to clean it regularly with warm sea salt water, or ask your piercer if they have any cleaning sprays ect. :) I use Sea salt water and i use a cotton pad and leave it on my belly piercing for 5 mins (i set a timer) then carefully move ur piercing jewel slightly to the side so you can use a cotton bud to get underneath and around the piercing jewel. For my nose, its quite difficult i'm still tryna figure out the best ways to clean it , but for now i use cotton buds with warm sea salt water and clean the inside of my nose where the piercings is located and around the outside of the piercing. I recommend using a mirror when doing this so u can see. :)

Ok so I drop out now what. I don’t know what to do 😔

I've found my people, apparently. I failed all my subjects this semester because I couldn't keep going anymore, and all of my professors are pissed at me now because I failed to meet even their extended deadlines 🥲.

I want only one thing ... droop out...

I study since 2019 and 3 out of 4 semesters were from home. I didnt like the first semester but I thought that it will get better. but then corona hit and the second semester was a desaster. I gained a big amoibt of weight, smoked weed every day cause it was the only thing that made me happy and I avoided doing anything for uni cause it reminded me how much I dont know and hoe much I have to do which caused anxiety attacks and fear for the exams. I hate it so much.

It's great to see this... I have healed myself as well. Weedborn oils have helped me a lot.

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